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Is being gay a choice?

state why you believe the way you do.

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  • 6 years ago
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    "What causes a person to have a particular sexual orientation?"

    There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation.

    Source(s): American Psychological Association (APA) http://www.apa.org/topics/lgbt/orientation.aspx
  • 6 years ago

    Having intimacy with anybody is a choice. I think most people are born either gay or straight, but I also think some people might actually change from one to the other over a period of time, there's all kinds of people on this planet, I've noticed.

    Possessing an innate attraction for a certain gender is real, I believe, because I don't ever remember "being taught" to have a giddy awesome feeling for women, it just happened (happens).

    I don't get that feeling about any male I've ever met so...

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    I think it's mostly not a choice! I can see from some ppl behaves that they are gay and it's obvious I can't deny it! Also there are some others who are gay but signs are less obvious but still you can tell!

  • 6 years ago

    I was born like this, I didn't choose to be like this. Do you think I'd purposefully choose to be a homosexual? I get persecuted at work, every time I go out in public people laugh at least once before the day is over, men don't talk to me or associate with me. It is tough being who I am, and I certainly didn't choose to be like this.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    No, the attraction isn't a choice. Yes, having sex is a choice.

  • Justin
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    No it's not a choice. You can't choose who you're attracted to.

  • 6 years ago

    No, some are inherently attracted to the same sex just as some Women are born in Male bodies

  • 6 years ago

    Did you choose to be the sexuality that you are?

    Why should it be any different for someone that prefers their own sex? They didn't wake up one day and "choose" a sexual preference. 😑

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    No

    Why? Because bit*h, I'M FABULOUS!!

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    No

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