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How do i become more confident and less socially awkward?
School starts in 3 days. And im scared as hell. Mostly for social reasons. To fit in you need to have Nike shoes. So I bought some. I didn't go all out and buy Jordans but I just bought purple kaishi runs this summer. and I also picked up white converse which is also pretty cool in my school. But I really have trouble fitting in last year. Last year I wore these really ugly shoes that were converse. It's not that they were ugly it's just that they were dirty. anyway I got made fun of a lot not just about shoes, about everything. So I was really self-conscious. I hung out with the wrong people. Fake friends. That didn't like me for me. They just made fun of me behind my back and front of me . I would go to the bathroom stall and cry. I would go home and cry. I was depressed i'd say. I felt ugly. They made fun of my features. Before that year i was confident. and now I'm really shy. In front of teachers, every time a teacher called on me my face turned red. I Am really self concious and shy. And socially ackward. How can i make friends with the right kind of people and not be so shy?
2 Answers
- 6 years ago
Remember this Super Important Truth it took me so long to understand but if I'd known it sooner, it would have helped me so much in scary social settings:
People cannot tell if you're faking confidence.
This is TRUE and if only more self conscious young people could grasp it. Practice! I'm not kidding. Practice smiling. Preventive laughing. Practice pretending to be confident. People can't tell you if don't really feel that way. They believe what you portray.
The second part of this is that the more you do something, the easier it becomes. So it might feel like torture pretending at first, like everyone will know you're faking it, but one day you'll realize you're not faking anymore, and you really DO feel relaxed and confident.
- JenWalesLv 76 years ago
Join the drama club...be on the stage crew. Drama will be the most welcoming group of people you will ever meet. All you need is to participate and make one friend there and others will follow.