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? asked in Society & CultureHolidaysRamadan · 6 years ago

Marrying for the sake of deep love?

Is marrying a western white blonde with blue eyes or a Muslim girl that dresses in a westernized way for the sake of deep love haram in Islam? Given the fact that western white blondes are not Muslim as well.

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  • 6 years ago
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    Salam.Marriage in Islam must be in the name of Allah not for the sake of deep love for whole life because marriage is included in ibadah or good deed.You can marry a beautiful blonde western girl but you must educate her to be a good Muslim who wears hijab because it is mandatory based ontheQur'a24:31 and 33:59 .Your marriage would not be blessed by Allah if your wife is not a Muslim(kafir) and your children will follow their mother too Your family would not be harmonious (sakinah ma waddah wa rahmah) You as he husband and leader in the family must responsible and accountable to Allah.Life is not only for sex

  • Mintee
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    you know nothing of muslims I can tell.. I have lived in SaudiArabia over 17 years now.. THERE are blonde haired blue eyed, white skinned 100% pure SAudi women who are muslim..

    color of skin has nothing to do with it.. .. and just for the arguments sake.. I also have thousands of american female friends who are muslim who also are blonde haired, blue eyed, white skinned.. .. in fact.. the majority of demographic popullation that is converting to islam in the west are upper class, educated white women in USA and not because of marriage.. its cause of enlightenment and they read about islam and coverted.. so you will find a white muslim woman in any country if thats what you want.. .. but dont overlook a good woman of any race in Islam.. its the amount of faith that matters, not her looks......

    oh and I have to add;.... there isnt a thing as "muslim" costume.... Allah didnt tell us in the Quran to wear a particular type of costume as a muslim woman.. we do however have to dress concervatively.. and proper.. we dont wear see through clothes, we dont wear tight fitting, we dont wear extremely colors (nice colors are ok), we dont show our legs, arms, neck or chest area, the clothes should cover, and be loose.. and we can wear a scarf on our hair, any scarf of our choosing.. if Walmart or Target or JCPennys sells clothes, we muslim women can go there and buy it..

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    If you running head-over-heel for the blonde and blue eyes only, then marry a good Muslim girl from Turkey, Bosnia or Eastern Europe.

  • 6 years ago

    Many clothes in the west cover women. I'm not sure if you mean the clothes that cover..or clothes like mini skirts/ belly shirts.

    If you love her go for it.

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