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my boyfriend really upset me..please help ):?

so my boyfriend were on and off last year and finnaly decided to act mature about us and give it one last shot because we still really like eachother. but over the summer he found gf named jasmine. and just now when we were talking about music he brought her up saying shut up and dance with me was "our song" ,jasmine and mine song. and then i said sry 4 what happened to you u seemed rly happy. and he write. yea i was the happiest ive ever been. and then i brought up my boyfriend who i found over the summer but this boy and i only dated for a short period of time but when i talked about my ex bf he seemed completely chill with it. idk what 2 do he rly hurt me

Update:

he says hes over her but yet he says he sometimes thinks about her and misses her sometimes, an di say u know u and i can be as happy as that at one point maybe it wont even be with me and hes just like "mhm thx"

Update 2:

i know this is rly stupid but we r young i admit but we do rly like eachother id just like advice not criticism

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  • Tina
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    A on and off relationship is a sign that the relationship will never work. I hate to say this, but you guys should not be in a relationship at all. His message is clear that he's not completely over his ex. You need to end the relationship. You will only end up with a broken heart if you stay with him. I promise you that if his ex would ask him to take her back that he would dump you so fast that you won't even know what happened to you. You don’t need to be in this kind of relationship. A relationship is supposed to be fun. But how can yours be fun when the ex is right in between you and your boyfriend. As long as he has feelings for his ex then, he will always think more about her than you. I hope you can see that. There is no room for an ex in a relationship. You will never be his as long as he keeps carrying her in his heart.

  • A-Girl
    Lv 4
    6 years ago

    Okay sorry, but are you guys like... 12 or something?

    Oh my Gosh.

    You're both way too immature to be in a relationship together. Break up and be friends.

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