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girl likes me but I don t like her back. help?

okay so ever since the beginning of summer of 2k15 (june) this girl has been texing me ever since we first met at a pool party i was invited to. and ever since the larty ended she somehow got my number and my snapchat information and shes been texing me flirty messages and all that. and after 3 days later she texted me a long paragraph saying how awesome of a guy i am and how cool and how good looking i am. and i just said thank you very much it was very nice whay youve texted me. and then the next day she told me that she liked me and that she really wants to get to know me better and all that. and so i told her respectfully that i dont like her back and that i am into someone else and that i wish to just be friends. she was sad and depressed for 2 days straight and she keeps texting me and telling me that she cant stop having feelings for me. I tried talking to her telling her that i am sorry that i dont feel the same about her but she keeps telling me that its hard to get over me and to find a better guy than me. i honestly think that shes really nice but i don t feel the same on having a relationship with her. she texts me every day flirty stuff and im into someone else but she doesnt want to understand that. what can i do?? please help me asap.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I know you don't want to be mean about this, and I'm not saying that you should, but you're probably going to have to just stop talking to her for awhile. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings, and I think it's great that you've told her in the kindest, gentlest way possible, but what she needs is some space. She's never going to feel better about things if she keeps hearing back from you. What you should do is tell her, "I'm really sorry; I really do think you're a great girl, but I just don't see you as anything other than a friend and I think we should take a break from talking to each other for awhile. I think it;'ll be better for you if we do, so you can have time to feel better, and we can be friends after you feel better."

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    It's honestly the way girls work. I was in a relationship with a boy for 18 months and after we broke up i texted him 24/7 and annoyed him loads (not proud of it) We are really clingy and possessive from time to time. Just ignore her, thats the only thing you really can do, after a while she will get the hint that it'll never happen and gradually she will move on from you. If you want you can tell her you have feelings for another girl, which will make her stop trying if she knows ur heart belongs to someone else. So just ignore her or block her or tell her you have feelings for someone else. I know its awkward for u but girls and girls :) Answer my question if you have time :) https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20...

  • 6 years ago

    2k15??? are you too cool to say 2015?

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