Taking an ex back? Please read all?

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I've been taking my ex back for six years. He never cheated or anything. That I know of. He's just a butt hole or he'll choose his friends over me. Sometimes I catch him in lies and he's a manipulater. But behind all that he's funny and sweet. 
 This year we dated about three times. About a month ago he came back asking to be with me again. But I've had enough and started ignoring him with no explanation. 
 After all these years of taking him back, what's he thinking now? His last text to me included a lot of curse words and informing me that he doesn't want to speak or see me again. I never replied. I think of him every now and than but I tell myself not to even think about taking him back. I'm just curious what's on his mind.

liltshea · Answer

You can't take him back, you are torturing yourself. You keep taking him back out of security which isn't okay. If you decide to take him back you need to set ground rules for how he treats you and discuss that it'll be the last time. Choosing friends over you isn't really a bad thing though, but manipulating is. Also he should never ever swear you  out.

? · Answer

Don't get back together with him. It's your choice in the end but just from what you wrote you will never be truly happy or be able to completely trust him. Find someone who makes you a priority and are happy to be with.

Parvati Lynn · Answer

That sounds like a bunch of ridiculous drama. Are you aware that there are other men in the world?

He is probably mad because you've shown him through your actions that you will put up with his nonsense over and over again, and now you're changing the game. Good. Ignore that guy and find someone else.

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