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Inattentive husband?
My husband is great, everything is perfect with him except sex.
Every time we have sex I work really hard for him but it's like rolling the dice on whether or not he'll do the same for me. Foreplay and sex is all about him most of the time.
While we were still dating, he once told me I should ask and he wouldn't refuse me, but I don't feel like I should have to ask. He never has to ask me. I'm really shy and sometimes I physically can't make the words come out of my mouth about this stuff.
I don't know how to talk to him about it. What should I do?
2 Answers
- MetalplanttagLv 76 years ago
If you want it to improve you need to LEARN how to talk about it and communicate your wants and concerns.
If he does not know there is a problem, he is not going to figure it out by himself, until it is to late.
Men are not mind readers, even if you give them all the "hints"
A relationship therapist might do a world of good, in giving you the words and means to communicate in an intimate and safe way.
- Anonymous6 years ago
That's normal in marriage, and that's one of the reasons why I'm never getting married. Try marriage counselling. You won't find much help here.