i need lots of answers on this two part question pls!?

1. If my significant other is putting our business on the street, with anyone who is not a blood relative or a long-time friend, and especially someone my s/o banged at some point, that will bother me, yes. Our business is our business and if I'm failing at doing something for her, tell me, not someone else.

2. I'd ask her to stop. If she felt compelled to continue, it's obvious I'm not doing enough to make her satisfied and I solve the problem by dumping her so she can go be free without my dumb a** around. I'll help her out.

1) I would not be with a man who tells his friends about our relationship regularly. I wouldn't mind if he was friends with people of his past, so long as they are only friends and I could trust that they wouldn't betray what me and said example partner have. Flirting on the other hand is completely disrespectful, even more so if it's with women he has slept with. That is only asking for trust issues.

2) I would dump his ***. If he wants to flirt with other women, then go right ahead, but he isn't going to have me and have the choice to flirt with women he has slept with in the past. I don't care if he chose me; if he actually chose to be with me, he wouldn't feel the need to continuously flirt with women of his past.

1 it would not worry me that she has friends of the opposite sex ---- it would concern me that she feels the need to discuss our life with them ---- if she has a problem come to me

2 i would let her know but then i dont think it would come up