cassarole

i've asked my fiance to stop liking provocative pictures of his woman friends, that its inappropriate and disrespecting to me. now his 'friends' fb pictures omit the likes and comments section all together. seriously, over night. am i the idiot or are they??

1) would you be concerned about your relationship if you significant other had 'friends' of the opposite sex that he/she communicated w regularly about your personal relationship w him/her. these friends are also ppl that your significant other may have slept w, openly flirts with and /or admittedly wants to.

2) how would you attempt to resolve this in yourself/relationship?

I live in a very small town, rural NC. jobs are scarce. my last 3 jobs have ended in being laid off although i have 15 yrs. experience i can't get the regional hospital dept. manager talk to me, even when she posts a job that is 'right up my alley' i have never met her, don't know her from adam...or anybody else for that matter. when i call or leave a msg, apply on line or visit the dept personally and ask her to call me ...she doesnt. she had the person i spoke with call me back and say she didn't need anybody! how unprofessional. i have visited the HR dept. directly to apply for the last job posting saying i couldn't reach her and they said 'she's the person i need to talk too" now there is a new posting for a position i am well suited for. what should i do????

i was told by my loan office at the bank of 'satan' that while they are processing my refi that i'm not expected to make my mortgage. i missed one month. today, friday at 4 pm. i received a call that my refi was cancelled because of non payment of sept. mortgage payment. i spoke with the loan officers supervisor and he told me he can't do anything about it. despite the fact that i was misinformed and this lack of payment was the only reason my refi was denied. i offered to pay it immediately and he said it was too late. and that his loan officer didn't say that, that its not true and theres nothing he can do. wtf? it was a HARP loan. and i've already had my mortgage w BOA for 5 yrs. no late payments.....who should i complain too?

my tank is full and off. do i open the lines indoors, then turn on the gas or what? whats the sequence of getting air out of the lines , establishing pressure...etc?

my man and i were engaged and living together in feb. he abruptly broke up w me and moved out. he started another relationship w someone he's known a while, i think they're companies work together off and on. anyway, we got back together and are happy but i can't stop obsessing about it. i don't trust him. and i don't even know the woman. i feel like im distancing my self from him. i dont know what to do. he is really trying to not make relationship mistakes like he made before...i don't want to discourage him but i feel ssoooooo troubled. any advice?

if you were in a relationship w a woman who you actually love and you know she adores you. ...and you find a dating site with her profile what would you do?

i bought a piece of land and now i am searching for house plans. i'm told they need to be architecturally approved. wheres a reliable source for such plans? that will 'fly' in NC with the building dept. i really don't even know where to start. i've found plans i like but don't want to just buy em and i won't be allowed to build for some reason.

i the op to buy a 24' x 24' cabin kit for 6k. it has no trusses just the box. treated, routed, d logs, dry and straight, never assembled.

really, get over it. learn a lesson, be a better person for having the experience.....choose to live in the now!

ppl have 'liked' the page but they don't automatically get sent my posts from that page. why? cause when i 'like' a page i get their posts....

does anyone know why media player would allow me to download music but not allow me to save it in a playlist, or burn it? all i can do is listen to it. it was a free download site...does that matter?

when i go to android market, and link to install the app 'awesome drop' it says i don't have a device????

i'm 'in'? a relationship w a man that i love and who i know loves me. we've been together 9 months engaged for 3. he exploded one evening on our way to a concert and we didn't go. he demanded his ring and his things and moved out. he's done this once before. he came back but the second time i told him we needed to go to counseling if we were to continue. he didn't go. but we continued talking about aspects of our relationship and are in agreement that we both have issues. i asked him what he wants to do...I told him engagement and living together was too soon, but i want a relationship anyway because we do have mutual love and our differences aren't a big issue, just need to make compromises,love each other and 'stop throwing out the baby w the bathwater.' he says he has to think. we are both in our 40s and not kids. I'm ok waiting, i guess. but what is he really doing? is this a slow fade blow off? how can i know for sure? any suggestions?

without going into a lot of detail, i was engaged too and living w a man for 4 months. he got angry w me one day and took his ring and stuff and left. he said he loved me and would be back. i said not before we go to counseling cause 'this' isn't going to happen again. he refused to go to counseling when the appt came, after saying he would, but i went. i told him what the counselor said, that we both have some issues (albeit, workable ones) . during the past 2 wks we have been both encouraging and angry w each other in person, phone or txt. the culmination of this all is that i finally txtd him 'that despite all odds, we are soul mates and our differences just make us the same...that i love him'. he shot back ' yes, the love remains, as will my word' I said 'what word' he said 'my love for you'. the next day, i told him that my declaration took balls and was an exercise of relating love to him....so what's next? that i don't want to live together or be engaged but i don't want to wait on you , like you have made other women in your past 'wait' only to be abandoned altogether. I've heard nothing for 12 hrs. what the hell is he doing?

i'm going to apply, but curious about what would disqualify me. the website is very general. anybody know? i met the initial guidlines. But feel i have to prove i can pay my mortgage...but can't (??) tricky. for instance...you can't be late (which i'm not) but prove you 'need' the assistance....which in my exceptionally economically depressed area and current laid off status...I do. anybody know what they are REALLY looking for?

talked to tile and glass ppl. both say its iffy, have to score it and tap it. but with what? i want clean, straight edges...i can sand later.