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Urvashi
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Urvashi asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 years ago

How to ask someone for marriage? Its a serious question. so no joke or ugly answer please.?

I am in love with a person for more than 6 years. Now i have become 22 and he is 25. my family wants to meet him and talk to him, but he always avoids doing these things. he shows no such affection or love to me. but we are in a relationship. (i think so).. i don't know how to ask him for marriage. as if i ask him about getting married and planning about our future.. he shows no such interests, and sometimes become very angry and loud also. I really feel sad at such things. i really love him very much and want to make him my life partner but he is a kind of selfish guy who always think about himself only. i feel sad but cant live without him. Now please suggest me some good and polite ways to start our conversation about getting married. i know its better to start any conversation face to face but we hardly meet so please suggest me some ways to start conversation through phone. i sometimes feel so hopeless as he always talks about his pets and about his usual day works, but never get the chance to discuss matters about our life. and now its really important. please help me.

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  • kasa c
    5 years ago

    First you Prepare yourself to leave him and let's give a last try "neither Message nor Call"

    You do neither message nor call to him until and unless you get your confirmation, Wait for his call, by any chance (Definitely you will get a call) if he gives a call you also just behave as like him, if he is calling you repeatedly(what he used to do when you call repeatedly).. keep continue the process... In any case if he's just trying to fulfill only his "Sexual desires".. You better keep him away.. I could say this is your first 50% of confirmation (by the time you could even able to prepare Negatively remember just you are giving a try).. Now try to avoid him( He should feel it, but you are not doing that actually.. How? . As usual you are not calling him.. and if he's calling you Many times in a day you just talk to him at the EOD only that too Hardly 2-3 minutes.. if he's not calling you.. even you also don't call.. if he asks to meet, Say that you are "Busy". In any case if he bursts,may ask you " why the hell you are doing like this?", and you also get burst and say hardly " that you are Very busy in Some thing and even you tell him that your parents are in hurry for marriage and even started getting proposals"80%..

    Wait for few more days and if he is remains unchanged.. Keep him Away permanently..

    Kasa.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Sorry girl, but he's not in love with you. If he was then he would show love and affections. Are you both having sex? then that is all he wants from you and that is why he doesn't want to meet your family.

    I think it time you break off with him and find someone better then him.

    I would not ask him to marry me and he won't ask you either.

    I've been around the block and know...

  • Tony
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Do not ask him ok , he will say no it is best for u to move on and meet a new nice guy ... xoxoxoxoxoxox

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