Is self harm wrong ?

It's not wrong as in morally but it's usually not your best option for releasing that tension. For instance, running would be a better skill and achieve more in the long run. Your coping skill is short term and it keeps you living in a circle of pain, fear, euphoria, guilt, tension. Kind of like deciding you won't go the the dentist but when you are in agony with a toothache will drink a bottle of whiskey. There are better options. But of course in the moment whiskey works for several hours. It is your life. You can make things as simple or as complicated as you like. But what is your end goal to all this? You don't have to answer me but think on it. What is the purpose in you doing what you are doing? And would you like to learn a better way? I think one day you might be interested in a better way. Stay open to that. You are setting down tracks now. The kind of tracks adults talk about in their 40s, 50s, 60s. Paths they took they wished they hadn't. And it wasn't very romantic after all.

My Christmas wish for you:to be comfortable in your own skin. To have some peace. You need it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_UCjqhfW4o

It's not wrong but as far as saying that you're not hurting anyone, you might be. Your loved ones, friends and people who care about you may get upset about it, if you're feeling depressed, you could ask your doctor about antidepressants to help you manage (Like myself). I hope this helps! :)

it's not saying you are wrong, but just worried about you. everybody is the only one in the world, please know that you are very precious. actually there are many wonderful things in the world, we have to keep us healthy to enjoy them, like tasty food, different cultures or even a hot drink in the cold winter. live long, don't hurt yourself

Yes, i mean the pain u cause on urself can make ur family worry about you

it is wrong. you should see psychologist