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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 years ago

How to tell my boyfriend I've been cutting my self?

I was clean from my self harm for almost a year (just one month short) but I repapst. I was on a camping trip away from him when it happend the scars still bright pink . I know he will be sad and hurting for me he is so genuine I'm ashamed to tell him but I know he will find out by seeing my wounds... I know talking to him in the right thing I just hate letting him down I love him and I know he hates to see me like this, he disurves some one stable and i want to be that woman... but how ? How should I aproche this topic? How do I become strong enough to overcome my ueges ?

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    5 years ago

    You know he will find out by seeing your wounds, you say. So that would mean your cuts are not hidden by normal clothing? You put them in an easily visible place?

    Then you're just cutting for attention. Congratulations; you got it.

  • linkus86
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Don't tell him. The only reason you would tell him is if you wanted his sympathy, and that is selfish. If you really cared for this person you wouldn't burden him with this information.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Rather than tell your boyfriend, take the needful treatment; otherwise it will continue

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