Help!! What girl should I pursue more?

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Girl #1: She is a sweet, mature person. I had great conversations with her and went on a nice walk with her. She said that I'm very cute but struggled a lot with eye contact. She was alright looking but I wasn't that physically attracted to her. Also, she's busy but she lives very close to me.

Girl #2: This girl wore scarlet red when I took her to dinner. I was blown away. She was a great conservationalist with a lot of self confidence. She said that I'm an acquaintance that is very attractive. She plays hard to get and lives 2 hours away from me.

I like both of them a lot but I've only been out with them once each. I'm not sure what to do.

shanon · Accepted Answer

Girl number one sounds great! I have to admit I've been with my boyfriend for nearly four months and I still find it hard to make eye contact but that's because I get distracted a lot! This time of year everyone's busy so don't think she's avoiding you! 
Personally every time I've dated a girl with a lot of self confidence we've normally always ended up talking about her non stop, which becomes boring. Also, long distance relationships don't work unless you're fully committed, two hours is a long way. 
So, although I've never met either of these girls I like the sound of girl number one, she sounds sweet and she doesn't sound like she wants 24/7 attention, not that I'm saying girl number two does. But, that's my opinion.

? · Answer

I'd say just go with the flow and see which girl you end up falling for more. No need to make a decision just yet.

You are not exclusive with either one, so just go on a couple more dates with each of them and see which one you end up liking more.

lexi · Answer

If u had one girl but fell for the 2nd , go for the 2nd , u didn't like the first one enough if u fell Again

janey · Answer

you're lucky, i cant even get one date :(
sounds as if you like the second more, maybe more exciting and challenging

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