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Should I continue to date my (wonderful) rebound or go back to my (wonderful) ex?
I truly believe that my ex is my soul mate. We dated for more than 5 years, and he is perfect for me in every way. I never wanted to break up, but we were long distance and it was killing me to be miserable without him. When I was with him it was heaven on earth.
But I broke up to give myself a chance to be happy and date people around me, and I started dating my best friend who is a sweet, caring, incredible guy. It's been a few months with him now, and while he's great and I do love him, I know he isn't as compatible or perfect for me as my ex (who still wants to get back together).
I don't know if I should continue to date him since I love him too and because the problems with my ex won't go away if I go back to him, or should I try (for the hundredth time) to make it work with my ex again, which will incidentally break my best friend and current love's heart?
By the way, I know I acted totally irresponsibly and bitchily here. I'm just trying to figure out how to hurt the least number of people and who I should be with.
4 Answers
- ?Lv 75 years ago
i will ask you to think about what you just said ----- you love your ex but cant handle being apart ---- if you truly loved him you would handle being apart ----- you miss the physical aspect of your relationship but the emotional and intellectual should be enough to make up for it ---- many couples married and living together make long distance relationships work well ----- if you dont love him enough to overcome that barrier you dont love him enough to make a romantic relationship last long term ----- as for your current partner if you truly loved him you would not be asking this question ----- he would be the only person you want to be with ----- the only honest response you can make is accept you dont like either of them enough to want to be with them the rest of your life ---- say no to your ex and break up with your current partner ---- when you love someone they are the ONLY one for you and you dont let anything stand in your way of being together as long as they feel the same way about you
- Anonymous5 years ago
Go wit the more considerate guy!
- Anonymous5 years ago
Stop it right there
