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Relationship problems, guy with a serious question.?
Everyone has a unique story of their personal life, some more significant than others in means of severity. But then again severity is subjective to the individual. I’m 21 years old and I’ve only been in 2 relationships, relationships as in girlfriend and boyfriend. I just got fired from our relationship today because as she said “her family matters were pre occupying her life, and she needed time to resolve them” How am I supposed to interpret such a statement? I’ve been alone for 4 years, and that alone is enough time to understand there is something different or wrong with myself that is unattractive to woman. Somewhere, there is something that is a definitive turn off to woman, and she didn’t have the “balls” to tell me what it was. She also said that she didn’t feel as strongly for me as she had when we first met. Mind you we dated for only 5 days, and she didn’t even get the time to understand the person that I actually am? She asked me to date her only after 2 days of meeting with her, if that isn’t enough to raise a red flag, I’m not sure what will. I like to believe I’m a good, down to earth guy. Someone who cares for people and willing to go to hell and back for something as simple as a thank you.
She was a good girl, with internal problems. She told me her grandfather was in the nursing home with a leg that might need to be amputated and that destroyed her personally. Her dad was supposed to have her over for new years for about a week and he ended up calling off on her coming over for that period of time. She has an extreme love for her younger brother and sister of which she would spend more time with than myself. The two kids love me, look up to me and she told me that she would like
me to come over every once in a while on their behalf. I said that I am in a relationship with her, and not her two siblings.
I’m just trying to figure out why she broke up with me, she once said that I’m a bad kisser lol, okay whatever. But I would go out of my way for them; not to impress her, but for them.
1 Answer
- Anonymous5 years ago
clearly you seemed pretty insensitive when you said you arnt in relationship with two siblings,if whatever she said is true her life seems like turning out pretty bad at this time,as a bf you should have been more supporting ,helping her out a bit even if that means verbally encouraging her or letting her some personal time,if you cant personally go and meet the siblings.
When you take a decision to be in relationship with anyone you cant just expect the person to cut themselves off the life and situations they already have and just be there to entertain you.