GUYS!! Friend I work with is confusing me and giving me mixed signals ?

Even with all the cuddling and physical touches, the moment a man or woman says they don't want a relationship, STOP RIGHT THERE. Don't ever enter a relationship or even pour out more of your effort when someone is showing you one thing, but is saying another. Their actions toward you should be CLEAR and CONSISTENT, not having you sit around trying to guess and figure out what it means.

So, if this is what he wants, then no more blowing kisses, no more cuddling, and no more holding hands. You need to show him that he or anyone else that they can't have it one way but not make it official. That's just not how it works, unless you're the type of person that doesn't mind that.

So, next time a guy is interested in you, TALK it out, make sure this is for sure, instead of just easily falling into the cuddly scene and letting him work his way too close into your life, because nothing was ever official. It was just a sloppy start to something sloppy. Focus your attention on something else.

He may just want you as a friend but our reading the signals wrong or he is flirting so much it is giving the wrong signs, each way I would just coast along and see what is really going on whether he is attached somewhere else or just not fully ready for a full on relationship

He wants to be friends with benefits, that's all.

He's just being a big flirt and to see if you're gonna fall for him so he can do anything sexual with you, that's all. Welcome to the single life if you're not looking for relationships.