What should I do when my GF doesn't text back?..?

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I know that I am not the first to ask this question but...

I have a girlfriend and we have been together for almost 3 months now. I like her a lot and I know she likes me a lot too... but she is awfull at texting me back :/

When we are together, she usually leaves her phone in her back and sometimes she doesn't even bring her phone at all, so I guess she just doesn't like texting that much.

She has just come home from Spain after a weeks vacation, so we haven't seen eachother for 2 weeks. (usually we only meet like once a week) - I miss her a lot, but apparently she is to busy with school and friends to see me these days. Fair enough I quess, at least if she texted me back more.

I know that it's bad, if you seem to clingy and that you need to give her some space. But on the other side, I feel like I should tell her how I feel. So now I have 2 options:

1. Wait untill she text me (at least I know that we will be together in the weekend) 
2. Call her and tell her how I feel

PS. the 2 last messages I sent her on facebook, that she hasn't responded to, was: 
- Okay, I have an exam tuesday, but other than that, I don't have any plans untill the weekend. So if you have time one day, I also have time ^^ (Yesterday 11 am) 
- I love you <3 (Yesterday 4 pm)

Anonymous · Answer

Welcome to the age of technology, where everyone is different as far as the frequency of their communication.  Some people text every minute, while others do not.

If I were you, I'd go with option 1.  If you bring attention to her lack of texting, that will just start an argument.  Stop being so clingy, and just deal with the fact that you are with a girl who isn't sitting by her phone every second of the day, waiting for you to text her.

If you honestly need someone who will text you more than you current gf, then you two should break up so you can find your ideal mate who blows up your phone with texts every second.

BeatriceBatten · Answer

Call her and ask how the trip was. Stop texting.

If she keeps avoiding you, then it's clear that she doesn't want to go out with you anymore. Take the hint and move on.

Patricia · Answer

If you want to talk with her, call her and speak with your voice.  I don't see what complaining about her lack of texting is going to do, except seem annoying.

anna · Answer

you should call her and see when you can make plans. if she doesn't have time and your feelings fade, your relationship might just be over :(

John · Answer

Give her more space than she gives you.

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