I really like my ex girlfriend. What do I do?

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So we dated about four years ago, and she broke up with me after about three months. It was mainly my fault, I wasn t the best boyfriend in the world but that was because it was my first relationship and I didn t know much about dating.

She dated another guy for a while, but they broke up too about a year ago. I didn t date anyone else, but I learned a lot more about dating and relationships.

We ve started talking again recently, and we ve made lot of progress so far. She s really nice to me and she touches me a lot (pats me on the back, rests her hand on my shoulder, etc.), and she seems to have an interest in me again.

But we were talking to another friend the other day, and when we were talking about dating and relationships in general she mentioned how she thinks that we are better friends now than when we were dating. She also said that she thinks that we re "good friends", and then asked whether or not I thought so too. The next day when I helper her out with something she was working on she said "thanks, friend" multiple times.

I really like her again and I want to ask her for a second chance, but I m not sure what she thinks about me now. Any advice?

? · Answer

It's never good to go back to an ex but if you feel like waiting another four years to see if she has any love for you than you wasted someone else's heart who have love to give. Why wait? She made it clear you're just a friend. Yes, many couples break up and go back but a small percentage stay and the rest move on. No one wants to hear this move on. Its best to date other women and see where your heart is at and plus you seem to be so focused on someone who doesn't want you. I share my story of a man I was once married to and I am off and on involved with him. He calls when he wants. He never comes to my home. He never calls to ask me to come to his home. He says one time I am a special friend. One time he would call me a girlfriend until one of his other ex's came back into his life so I am now an ex-wife. He's been doing this for the last 8 years but we been together for 25 years. This is why I say move on. I am doing it. I know he will not get the hint because he thinks I love him. I do not love him. I do not need to be with a man who has so many other lady friend's or other ex's. A few days ago I have decided I want my dignity back. I don't know how to find a new man with all the damage this man placed in my heart so with this ex that you have feelings for may not want to get hurt again. You're unstable. She needs a stable man. Yes, a mature man who knows what he wants in a relationship. All she sees in you is rejection. One point, communication is the key to any relationship. If you didn't know how to be in a relationship you should have told her and maybe you can do it now but be ready for a possible rejection if she doesn't have any feelings for you. Do not wait another four years when there are plenty of other women who will love you for who you are so enjoy what time you have now and not later.

BB · Answer

She friend zoned you. :/ Hate that. Don't let her be the only girl you think about since you really like her. She could hurt you with that or use it as advantage unless she's a really good friend. There more fishes in the sea, man. Get out there. Get into relationships and see if you still like her. Maybe you still do. You've gotten a better understanding for relationships. Use that if she likes how more mature you've gotten.

Addie · Answer

I think you should keep being a good friend to her and wait. She isn't attracted to you right now, but if you guys really bond a romance could form, you just have to be patient and see if something happens. Also, please answer my relationship question :)

Moe · Answer

Move on before you become a neck beard hermit who only has a life on the internet,

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