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"have you ever been with a girl?" Bisexuality?
I have been texting this guy and he made a stupid joke and somehow I said something about how Im bisexual. Well he asked me if I have "ever been with a girl". I don't know what to say. I know that my bisexuality has nothing to do with what sex I have done things with. should I answer and turn the question back on him so he can feel how incredibly awkward it feels? I don't want to be mean though. What do I say?
3 Answers
- Duke NukemLv 45 years ago
(I am assuming he is straight. Change this answer if needed, to suit his tastes)
If you don't want to be mean, you can point out that he didn't need to try having sex with a girl, in order to know he was straight. He knew he was attracted to girls before his first time.
If you wanted to be less polite, you could ask him if he needed to have sex with a man to know he is not gay... but I think you would probably consider that a mean answer. It is, kind of.
He should know, from his own experience, that the sexual attraction someone feels is pretty clear long before it leads to any action.
- ArnoldLv 75 years ago
There are tons of misconceptions about bisexuality. Maybe just tell him what you said here, "bisexuality has nothing to do with what sex you have had."
Educate him.
- 5 years ago
Just be honest and say how you feel. If you haven't, say you haven't but that it doesn't matter. You kno you're bi so who you have, or have not slept with doesn't make you not bi.
