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Please give me some sex education!?

I am a 17 year old virgin (female) and I am not that well versed when it comes to sex and contraceptives... My parents know how innocent I am so they don't bother talking to me about it.. Unfortunately for me.

Here lately, I have gotten really horny (excuse me) and honestly just want to jump this guy I know, who would be more than willing. Now, I'm not saying I will be doing the naughty with him anytime in the near future as a definite, but if I happened to end up in the back of his car in a moment of carelessness and foolishness, what should I know??

Update:

I'm definitely familiar with unwarranted dick pics and such, but physical contact is foreign to me

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  • Kasha
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    You are in control of your sexual choices - if you don't want to have sex with him just yet then don't, if you know that you lack basic sex education then you need to ensure you don't have a moment of carelessness and foolishness - being horny doesn't mean that you're not in control of your sexual choices, respect yourself enough to ensure you care for your safety and emotional well-being before choosing to have sex with someone.

    There are a lot of good web sites with sex education resources (see below), there are also countless books you can get out of the library or buy for yourself, you can ask your parents for information too (although don't rely on them for all your information), also you can go to a sexual health clinic for more information on things such as safer sex and birth control (it's always a good idea to get condoms, talk about birth control, ensure you know where to go for emergency contraception and STD screening, etc). Plus if you have specific questions ask here!

    40 Places To Learn Everything You Never Heard In Sex Ed - http://www.buzzfeed.com/nataliebrown/places-to-lea...

  • 5 years ago

    The Library is full of Free book on Sex and Female sexuality

    and you can start here at this site- good basic Sex Education site

    http://www.scarleteen.com/

  • 5 years ago

    1) to make things a lot better for you, LOTS OF FOREPLAY. At least 20 minutes.

    2) Latex is your best friend

    3) if the condom breaks, sneak off to the drug store the next day for Plan B/ another emergency contraceptive

    4) be responsible. Please. Do whatever the hell you want as long as you're responsible about it

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