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Can someone please help me? 10 points?

I met this girl a year ago. There was no contact until the past winter. I was with my group of friends one day and noticed that girl staring at me. I thought nothing of it, until that time turned into months with her still staring. I made attempts to talk to her, but she sounded monotone and was always in a hurry. Her friends always stared at me. I messaged her one day and she told me that she had a be and did not want to talk. I made it very clear that I just wanted to be friends. But she still went on about having a bf and other stupid things. . she seemed kind of arrogant so I left it. I did happen to see her with someone, maybe a "bf" but idk. Now she gives me these looks.. She always used to be around his arm when I happened to see her, but now they never appear together. She's always alone. I wrote something in my notes that I plan on sending her in June , since I'll prob never see her again. It talks about how she acted and how everything went down. Retrospect if you will. Could it change something? Thanks.

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  • 5 years ago

    It depends on what the note says really, but ultimately I think you should just cut your losses and accept she's probably not interested. From what you've said it sounds like she hasn't really done anything particularly mean; you explained you wanted to be friends, she said no. Nothing gained or lost by either of you.

    If the note is to try to make her see you differently, I doubt it will. Besides, you shouldn't have to ask people to be your friend; companionship should be freely given. If someone can't give you that, they dont deserve your friendship. On the other hand, if the note is to try to make her see how erratic and unfair her behavior was, I doubt it will because... well her behavior doesnt really seem that wrong. She had no obligation to accept you in her life.

    If I were you I'd forget her and move on. You already have a group of friends you can count on.

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