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My bf is going to jail soon. What should I do for him on our last night together?

I want to do something special before he goes. He's actually a good guy who has had an unfortunate life at times. I'm trying to help him better himself.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago
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    You two should sit and talk about your relationship and where it is going. Talk about what you expect him to learn during his time in jail. Talk about how you plan to continue to live your life and improve your life while he pays for his crime. He didn't end up there just for fun. You need to seriously think about how you value yourself, your time and your future. Do you want to put your life on hold for someone who is in jail and has a criminal record? Or do you want to value yourself and devote your life to someone who has a good future?

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Use two forms of birth control.

    I'm sorry, but people don't just land in jail by accident.

    He's not the guy you want to father your children.

    Lots of "unfortunate" people are out free, leading very respectable lives.

    That's nothing more than an excuse for poor judgement, or outright disregard for the law.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Pray together.

    I also highly recommend you stop making excuses for his behavior. He's choosing to be a victim of his circumstances vs survivor.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    sorry, you can't make him better. that's all up to him.

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