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What are some signs of a controlling person, Does it also has anything to do with them telling you should switch up your clothing style ?
I asked because my husband (military) said to me over the phone that we should/need to start wearing classy clothes. He knows I like to wear jeans, sneakers/chucks comfortable clothes. We are both 31, no kids. He's stationed in Korea until the fall. Thanks 💖
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- .Lv 75 years agoFavorite Answer
A controlling person would tell you what you have to wear or would refuse to be seen out with you unless you wore what they wanted.
Someone suggesting you change your style of dress, doesn't indicate control at all. Especially when he suggested you BOTH do it. He's wanting to make some changes, get a fresh new look, liven things up. That's not necessarily a bad thing. Might be worth it to consider humoring him, at least some of the time.
- Sur La MerLv 75 years ago
That's controlling!
He's been in Korea, and he knows the Asians there are always looking NICE.
You can look nice, by not wearing too casual clothes everyday, if you have a reason to go somewhere NICE!
But how you look, is something that should come FROM YOU, not because of peer pressures!
Fashion is all about comfort, and looking presentable, and you're having fun @ the same time. Looking nice, doesn't mean expensive designer labels. You can buy 'nice' clothes @ thrift shops starting from $4.99, if you know how to look for them. You can look nice with jeans & blazer jacket, with a blouse or a T-shirt too!
Nice means, how you put them together!
- Jackie MLv 75 years ago
It is not controlling but I would ask why he wants this - he is away just now and what reason would he have for wanting you both to upgrade your clothing?? When he returns will both of you be going anywhere to meet his workmates or boss becuse it could be to show you off but whatever I would do what you want to do, Good Luck