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I met this guy two weeks ago on Jack'd everything is perfect he is a general dentist with a good head on his shoulder. I went to hangout with him for the first time last week and was very nervous. We were watching the O.J Simpson story and he said lets go in my room and he started watching porn and dropped his shorts I sucked his you know but must have done a bad job because he grabbed lube from his drawer and begin jacking off and told me he was about to *** and came in my mouth and told me he has mouth wash in the bathroom. After that he said he was going to finish watching the O.J Simpson story and told me to text him when I got home. I did telling him I made it home and that I was sorry I was so nervous and said that I am around people I just meet and hope that we can be friends. He replied said I was very nervous and that he would like a friendship. I then text back asking what he liked to do and he wrote back movies and eating oysters at seafood house. I then texted him stating I never tried oysters but would have to and told him that he was very attractive and I texted him yesterday asking how his day has been and he said patients was pissing him off and I texted him letting him know my day was going too and texted him today telling him I hope he has a better day, but he didn't text me back. Ive text him twice. Should I text him again? What did I do wrong? Is he not interested?
3 Answers
- Anonymous5 years ago
Sounds like he is not interested too much. It may not be you specifically, he could be having other guys over as well, just not too set on having a long term relationship. My advice is just take anyone you meet with a grain of salt. In reality you have to go through a lot of guys to get to one that clicks with you and actually wants to set up a time to get back together and do something. Just because a guy hops in bed with you the first time doesn't indicate he won't want a long term relationship, that is a myth.
Let it go for a few days, then message him back, see if he seems interested, but don't hold your breath. Continue to look for other people as long as it has not gone to a more serious level. It's nothing you did, all you can do is be yourself, and realize most guys are not going to go out of their way to try and get back with you. Just how it is for everyone, not just gay men. My point is you can do everything great, and the person will still ignore you after the first meeting time. Something you have to realize. The nervousness gets better with time and experience. Then you just meet people and it's no big deal. Then you are free to look around for the right person with little pressure.
- ?Lv 55 years ago
No do not text him again. If you are desperate too then text him in a week or so. He doesn't sound overly interested but that might have so little to do with you. It could be a million different reasons including that he is overly nervous or is a player with little interest in maintaining a relationship. The best thing you can do is leave it as it is otherwise you come across as desperate. Move on it wasn't meant to be.
- 5 years ago
You are acting insane... First just sit down, calm down and think what kind of relation you want with the guy. Friends\friends with benefits\boyfriend. Whatever you want meet with him and clearly indicate to him your intention. You seem like a shy person, but you have to talk to him about this. After that, whether he accepts your intentions or not you can still sleep at night.
