What should I do for my 18th birthday this Saturday?

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I turn 18 this Saturday and I live in NorCal and I wanted to spend it at a lake or Santa Cruz but the weather says it's gonna be the coldest day of the week (60-something at the most) when literally today and tomorrow is going to be 80-90. I really want an outdoor camp like thing so I can go drink beer and smoke weed surrounded by nature. I don't really have a lot of friends. Actually I kind of have none, just my bf. Both of 
us don't have cars and I just want to have something really special and exciting for my 18th but nobody wants to hang out with me on my birthday. I kind of feel desperate. I want to find a warm nature/lake spot in the Bay Area but I think it's gonna be cold everywhere on my birthday. I'm so lonely and I don want to spend this birthday alone and crying again. It's been like that every year since I was 12.

Monica · Answer

PS: I don't want to seem like I'm asking for attention but I just need some help. Every year around my birthday I want to kill myself and I just want this to stop. I NEED to do something special for me, I'm so stressed out, I have no friends and I dislike myself. The only thing that truly makes me happy about me turning 18 is that I can legally buy my own cigarettes and that makes me sick over how low my life is. Also how getting a license and a car will be easier even though I can't drive, and I can make my own doctor appointments so I guess that's cool too. I new to think of something that will keep me sane

choko_canyon · Answer

Why would you have to spend your birthday alone if your boyfriend is with you? If it's too cold for water sports, bundle up, pack a picnic lunch, and hike up to Tilden Park if you're in the East Bay, and over to the Marin Headlands if you're in Marin or SF.

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What should I do for my 18th birthday this Saturday?

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