Boyfriend with anger problems.?

Unfortunately excessive anger is a danger sign of possible future dating abuse. It seems like he wants to control you. Ask your school counselor for guidance.

It sounds like he needs some professional counseling to help him get over this problem. It's often available for little or no fee through health insurance. Almost everyone needs counseling at some point in their lives.

May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.

My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), break up with this guy in a kind way unless he's willing to get help for his problem and unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!

PS If you fear his reaction if you decide to breakup, contact your local domestic abuse hotline or call the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

PPS The best way to get to know a strong man without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service organization, a school organization, or a religious organization.

Find a better boyfriend.

A good BJ solves most guy problems, temporarily anyway.

r u dating a toddler? y r u dating this fool? most people would not act like that. get someone who's matured past the age of 4.