Is it possible in real life that some women would attract married men (or men with girlfriends) but not single men?

A woman who attracts ONLY married/engaged men does so because the men are prowling, looking for a quick roll in the hay. It is a combination of THEIR desperation and her signals.

Attraction is a two-way street. What we "put out" attracts certain kinds of people, depending on the unconscious signals that we transit, that others unconsciously pick up on. But also who WE are attracted to depends on these unconscious interchanges.

Attraction is always based on our unconscious patterns and pathways in our brain. Our "issues".

In the case of this woman, she is very smart. And emotionally very healthy.

Men who cheat on their wife WILL cheat on their next wife too

Women want commitment not rolls in the hay. So a man who cheats is NOT a good candidate for becoming a faithful husband to her

And we haven't even begun to talk about the issues of who what WE do contributes to how the WORLD is ... we are either part of the problem or part of the solution .. and cheating is part of the problem. So is bedding a cheater.

Karma, if you want to put it that way.

Yes, it happens to me all the time. Seriously.