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Boyfriend says take a break??

my new boyfriend and i have dated for one month and its been great however we hung out last weekend and things were fine but then after around 3 days his texts seemed distant and i confronted him about it but he just said school is overwhelming but then it kept happening so we met up that day and he said that he doesnt feel the connection he wish he could feel so i told him so what do you want to do about it then he said i really dont know i just need some time apart to think about us. he is a straight a student and hasnt been in a relationship in a while. but im still freaking out because wtf..

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  • 5 years ago

    It sounds like a break up and that was the best way he knew to do it

  • 5 years ago

    Lack of effort put by both parties no such thing as chemistry in my world all there is, is you earn respect you don't just receive it easily.

  • 5 years ago

    He's not feeling that "chemistry" and connection he needs to feel in order to date you. It's not personal against you. We either feel it or we don't... there is not an "i might feel it".... can't force chemistry.

    Just move on.

    Chemistry is all about human sex pheromones at first. G00gle it.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    break always means break up ---- if you like each other you both work out any issues together ---- one does not run away and think things will sort themselves out ---- its over move on

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  • mokrie
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    He isn't into you so just deal with that fact and move on.

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