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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 years ago

My ex boyfriend is ignoring me...?

Me and my ex were together for 3 months and those were the best 3 months of my life. He was (and still is) an amazing guy. He treated me right, never did me wrong, respected me, etc. But things just didnt work out and he broke up with me. It was good that we broke up.

We both want to be friends with eachother and we both agreed on that. Because we were friends before the relationship and we wanna end it with friendship too.

So we've been having friendly conversations lately and things were going good. But since last week, he has been ignoring my messages on purpose and everytime I ask why, he just ignores it.

(Also, I even told him that being friends would be good for me to move on from him)

Update:

wtf? I only messaged him to ask him if theres anything that I did wrong. I never said "Omg why are you always ignoring me?" or anything along those lines.

Oh and P.S. HE was the one that wanted us to be friends even when I didn't. HE was the one that said he wanted to keep talking to me.

So don't turn this around on me. Cause the only reason I texted him multiple times was to know why he was being like that. Not that I was crying over him not messaging me back lol

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  • Rhi
    5 years ago
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    Honestly I can't do friendship after dating, especially if you fell hard for the person, it's just too difficult to recuperate from such emotions, and having them around and in contact all the time only worsens it. Maybe ask if he needs space so you guys can cool off a little, then after a couple weeks or however long it takes try to re-spark the friendship and start on a clean slate

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    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Are you really that dense that you don't understand what the ex means in ex-boyfriend? You seem clingy and annoying so back off. Being friends after a breakup from a romantic relationship is quite rare. You need to move on without trying to remain friends. You wanting to remain friends to make things easier for you to move is one sided and will just end up being a disaster. Take the obvious hint from your ex-boyfriend and leave him alone.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    He ignoring you on purpose to punish you. Some men have a really warped mindset. If they don’t get their way in a relationship or even after one they will find ways to manipulate you emotionally. One way that exes know they can get under your skin is to simply ignore you for a couple of days. When men start ignoring you on purpose it is coming from a place of rage just because they know it will punish you. He didn't like the way the relationship was going.

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Maybe being friends isn't good for him. Maybe he's trying to really move on. It sounds like you may be coming off a little clingy and desparate if you are texting multiple times and asking why he isn't responding. It sounds like it woul be best for both of you to move on for real. Being friends after a break up doesn't really work.

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