Question to cheating spouses: Why would you try or desire to "come back or reconcile" with your spouse?

Question

Obviously, you decided to seek another person to fulfill your wants or needs. Now that those wants or needs have been fulfilled, then:

1.) Why would you want or even consider a marriage with your spouse? 
2.) Did your affair cause you to have more resentment for your spouse?
3.) Did you do things with your lover that you didn't/ wouldn't do with your spouse?

Thanks for your response.

RP · Accepted Answer

Although not a "cheating spouse," it seems to me you've omitted the most likely reason for a cheating spouse to return to her/his spouse. It is that the person with whom s/he has been cheating has tired of her/him and, in her/his absence, the cheater has decided to go home. That may seem a terrible reason, but is likely to reflect reality.

Anonymous · Answer

Why dump a perfectly good spouse if the only problem is a lack of sex ?

Say , for example ,,, his wife is a lovely woman , good cook , good mom , pleasant personality , maybe even has a decent income ,,,,,,, her only problem is No Libido !

It would be hard to discard her over that alone , don't you agree ?

Adrien · Answer

Sometimes so thing is missing from our marriage, or we get to busy with life that we seek outside people besides talking to one another, or even having a date night with our spouse. First I would get counseling no one is perfect, attend a church and get right with god he has the power to change everything.

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Question to cheating spouses: Why would you try or desire to "come back or reconcile" with your spouse?

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