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does she hate me now or something?? :(?

ive been friends with a girl since november, she knew I have a crush on her but she only wants to be friends. she would text me everyday, and she was always asking me to hangout. but just 2 weeks ago she told me we cant hangout anymore because she felt I was liking her too much and that it wasn't fair for me. we text but our conversations are boring or she ignores me. we were close friends but now it feels like she hates me. Any advice. :'(

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  • 5 years ago

    No, she just doesn't want to be accused of "friend zoning". I can tell you're pretty young, so I will give you a word of advice now:

    The friend zone does not exist, and people do not owe you sex or a relationship purely because you like them and were nice to them.

    For now, leave her alone and acknowledge her feelings. If you continue to try to talk to her after she has made herself clear, you will only exasperate your problems. I'm sure there is a lady out there who will like you and accept your advances, but this girl isn't the one and you gotta leave her alone.

  • 5 years ago

    Leave her alone. And in the future, don't agree to being friends with someone you want to date. People think that if they go the "friends" route, that eventually she'll see what a swell guy they are and she'll have to throw in the towel and date them. This is simply not true. It may work in the movies, but not in real life.

  • 5 years ago

    Believe it or not she may sound like she is being harsh but she is actually doing you a favor. She does not hate you she just doesn't want you to get to attached. That is a mature response in my opinion.

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