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How can I make myself exciting to Him again !?
I've been my fiancé for 2 years ! He proposed 2 weeks ago and I was on cloud 9 ( notice the use of the word was ) Since he proposed he has become cold, distant and easily irritated by me. He has pushed me away since not cuddles or kisses or any closeness. He had dropped my bombshell he is bored with our relationship ! He only proposed 2 weeks ago ? I'm at a loss to know what has changed ! He feels we are just milling along and all the excitement has gone. I've asked him what's changed or why he proposed and his reply is simply I dunno ! This should be one of the happiest times of my life instead I'm cry and I'm worried all and any advice is welcome.
4 Answers
- Anonymous5 years ago
Just dont bug him with the "whats wrong?" Question 10 times a day; it irritates men when they're trying to figure out things.
Stay cool and keep calm; be nice to him and look happy to see him - making a few nice meals for him also helps - everyone loves a homemade meal done just for them.
Like the other lady said: its a lifelong decision..but if he proposed then he cant walk out of it now..the thinking part comes before proposing. Maybe he's just considering if he can manage the financial part of getting married etc.
You sound like a sweet person and he will be a lucky guy to have you by his side.
Wish you all the best.
- 5 years ago
I think he's getting cold feet from proposing to you, he is most likely overthinking the relationship and talking himself out of it because it's a huge life decision. Just reassure him he has nothing to worry about, and start doing fun and exciting things. Inside the bedroom too, if your religion permits you to do so. (I don't want to offend)
- esim345Lv 75 years ago
You aren't the problem here. You aren't the one who needs to change. If you were boring, then he wouldn't have proposed. Something weird is going on with your boyfriend.
- Ace ShortyLv 75 years ago
I noticed you didn't say anything about sex, you not having sex with him yet?