One guy hurts you and one guy loves you.....so why?

Because the guy who loves her comes off as clingy and desperate while the guy that hurt her comes off as independent and a possible conquest.

Women tend to be naive and incredibly emotionally stupid. They have have this image about a hot, wild independent alpha guy that can get any girl but she is that particular one that tames him and he finds his "true love" in her.

It's about the most moronic and brain-dead fantasy you could possibly imagine. Yet women are prepared to sacrifice EVERYTHING for it.

Never regret giving love, but giving is not enough. It has to be returned. File that love away in your heart as a treasure and move on. There's room for the next love. Next time be sure it's returned.

It's not about you and your perspective. It's about her and her perspective. Hardest lesson of all.

Girls like bad boys. Boys like bad girls. Women like gentlemen. Men like ladies. Adults have learned the difference between kind and wimpy and aren't impressed by wimpy. Children have not learned the difference.

You are pining after a bad girl. That means you are still a boy. Growing up is a process that is painful and that is not easy. This is one aspect among many. Look carefully at yourself and the type of females you are drawn to. Be very careful about who are the girls and who are the women. It's not an easy mental change to make.

A girl can't help who she has feelings for. Usually the guy hurting the girl makes her want him even more. It's strange and sad. But if you love a girl and she is blind to that and chooses an *** hole over you, move on buddy. give your kindness and heart to someone who appreciates you.

She must not have feelings for the guy who loves her. It's very sad but true. Maybe she sees something in the guy who hurts her.

Because she has an attraction to one guy and not the other. We can't force attraction and just because someone thinks they love us, it doesn't mean we feel the same.

Can't force attraction. It's either there, or it's not.

Biologically, she sees him as a better mating partner. This is programmed biological behavior. Just like you chasing after that girl for you-know-what. It's programmed into your brain. You just follow your programming.

Too many people think that they are 100% in control of themselves. If you are one of those people, then please explain to me how you consciously control your heartbeat. Do you see where I'm coming from now?

When a girl fell in love they didn't think who it would, they just felt it. So it's really sorry to the other guy.

Go figure. Maybe she got attached, and just doesn't get he does not prefer to be with her. When your young those signals aren't so clear.

My guess is he has a larger penis