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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 years ago

People who say looks dont matter? So do u go for people u dont find physically attractive?

Update:

***For the record, I'm not some bitter "ugly" guy - fairly decent looking, as validated by multiple women... Just wanted to see what people's opinions are on this***

Update 2:

@ Waterdragon - No no, dont get me wrong, I am absolutely in agreement with you on that sentiment - they have to be attractive TO YOU, and YOU only, who cares what others think

I am just baffled by people who think looks and/or sexual attraction doesnt matter at all... I DO disagree with that... At the end of the day, do u desire romantically or sexually someone who YOU - YOU only, remember this - think and/or feel is ugly and/or unappealing?

Update 3:

I wonder why it's all or nothing with these answers - let's assume that all these people have decent personalities at least, not terrible people, mean, bitter, superficial, angry, etc etc

If two people u are interested in have similar personalities - good ones, both of them - and one is more attractive physically than the other, who are u going to pick?

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  • Caleb
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    People who say looks don't matter are telling a lie. They do matter to a certain extent.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    5 years ago

    I go for personality. I don't want to be with someone who looks good and has a terrible personality. That wouldn't last too long. Looks are only skin deep.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Attraction is all about human sex pheromones. And this is (usually) the reason we get together with someone else and start dating.

    Everyone has a different idea about who is attractive.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Looks are a bonus but personality lasts forever and looks dont

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    You have it all wrong ------ you go up to someone you find interesting and because you find them interesting they are also attractive TO YOU ------ it does not matter how others see them ------- you are not with them because of their looks

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