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How do i prevent my girlfriend from going on a trip to her sister in another country?
Ok so im madly in love with her and i dont want her to leave. every year she goes to a trip on 10 days to see her sister in bosnia however i have mental issues where i overthink everything and im just afraid that something might happen to her while she is on the trip and i dont want her to leave me alone even though its just 10 days. i think about her 24/7 and i just dont want her to go becuse im afraid that something bad can happen and also i dont think i can survive that long again without her, last year those 10 days were hell to me. I know that this is selfish of me and that i have issues but idc i just want to know whats the best way to make her stay here?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 75 years ago
You do know you're behaving selfishly, don't you? Nothing is going to happen to her. Slim chance.
Let her go and have fun and while she's gone, find productive things to do with your own time. Go hiking, take pictures, spend time with friends, family doing activities.
If you are in the habit of making catastrophe predictions, perhaps try living RIGHT NOW... it's always "right now". And right now? Everything is fine.
- AuntKatieLv 75 years ago
If you try to make her stay, you are driving a wedge between the two of you, and she might be more inclined to just leave you forever. Stop being so obsessive and possessive. She has a right to visit her sister.