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20 year old virgin with a 36 year old?

I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. I met a 36 year old man who has recently propositioned me for sex. Not out of the blue. This has been building the past few weeks. Should i do it? I want to, but i have a few reservations. I don't care about his life back home. He's going to be here in the area for at least a year so this is something that i could continue, but due to a few circumstances i have to decide within the next week or 2 if this is something i'm going to pursue. And i'm not really looking for a full blown relationship myself. The age difference isn't that big of a deal to me, it's mostly that i'm still a virgin. I obviously don't have much real life experience. And i am self conscious about my body. I've been losing weight recently and i think i look good, but it's different when your clothes come off. I have a belly. Meanwhile, he is literally the most attractive man i've ever seen. If i don't do this, i think i'll regret it. I don't know if he knows how old i am, so next time i see him i might drop that i'm 20 and a virgin. If he is still up for it, should i do it? And do you think he'd care that i'm soft in the middle?

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  • 5 years ago

    NO. of course no. Like you are just gonna give away to someone you find attractive instead of someone you love? Think carefully, it is something once you give it will nv return. I mean never trade temporary pleasure for permanent regret. Even if you want it, wait for it. It is still your decision but I will definitely not do it. & you think he will call it off if he knows you're still a virgin? I doubt so.

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