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Help! Complaicated friendship!?
So there's a girl I met on Instagram, And we've FaceTime manys and I've know her for a while, so I know she's not fake. I thought she was so sweet and caring, but she seems on and off. Anyway, Sometimes I feel my friend Vanessa ignores me. She's lied to my face and ignored me a lot. I know of Course she doesn't want to talk to me 24/7, I know that. But it bothers me. I told her what I feel but she said "why do you always send me stuff like that?" Then she said "I'm sorry if it sounded rude, I love you and glad we met" I've lied to her, just to keep our relationship going. She's seems so nice, But now I don't know. Is it meant to be? She makes me cry sometimes, And it hurts. What do I do? (REMEBER LONG DISTANCE FRIEND, DONT COMMENT LONG-DISTANCE ARE FAKE FRIENDS)
3 Answers
- Anonymous5 years agoFavorite Answer
If you have to lie to keep the friendship going, it's only hurting you and her both. I used to have a long distance friend, who was a compulsive liar. I gave him years and years of chances. Five years worth and each year there were more lies than the last. I kept forgiving him and telling him to stop lying, there was no need to. Finally, he ghosted me. Just realize internet friendships do not last long-term. And, you should tell her the truth. If things get worse, at least you told the truth and got out of a toxic friendship. Just give her some space for now, make some new friends, and tell her the truth.
- 5 years ago
If I were you I wouldn't talk to her for a while and see if she talks to you on her own, if she does then maybe she just isn't the type of person who likes to talk a whole lot. But if she doesn't ever message you on her own then you need to find a new friend who actually appreciates you and doesn't stress you out!
- ChanelLv 65 years ago
If you do not contact her regularly and back off a bit then she will wonder what you are doing and it should make her keener,
Try not rely on one person as one person cannot be everything to you.
Make other friends so that you do not dwell on this situation and you will feel better.
