16th bday help? I'm a guy.?

It's gonna be my 16th bday soon and i have zero friends and I hate most of my family because they all are very bad people. The only friends I have I can talk to online and at school but not really irl. Only one of them out of the only two friends I have could even remotely come to my party but she is busy sometimes and I can't have a party with one person. And if I invited them to my bday i'm afraid people will judge them along with me because they are very weird deep web crawling, tumblr loving, devoted to other kin, non binary people and I live in a conservative household. Also they are very mentally unstable but they have been very nice to me and they are all I have. But your 16th is supposed to be special with a ton of your friends but everyone I thought I was friends with shut me out this year after I found out they were just trying to be polite but not my friend because they think I'm too weird. I'm thinking about not inviting them and just telling my mom that I don't want to do anything on my bday because I hate people because people hate me. And it would be relaxing to not have to worry about planning anything or feeling guilty for taking peoples money. And I have stuff to do at my house so I guess it's fine, not to mention I should study for my drivers test. But something tells me I shouldn't just give up, so I decided to post on here and ask for any suggestions for my party. I could have some of it on skype. Anything would be appreciated!