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Should I break up?
I am a 20 year old male and I've been in my first relationship for 9 months now with my girlfriend who's just about to turn 16. I love her very much and the best thing I know, is to spend my time together with her.
However, I feel our relationship is starting to have quite a few problems:
- First of all, there is the obvious age difference. However, she is somewhat mature and none of our friends/families have any problems with it, so this is the least of our problems.
- She haven't had a phone and her internet at home sucks, which makes her impossible to reach.
- While I often partake in things I don't personally really like (like drawing) I often feel it's difficult to make her try things I want to do.
- She likes to sleep till 4 pm and she doesn't want sex nearly as often as I do
- She's indecisive, irresponsible and awful to make plans with.
- I've said these things to her countless of times, but I don't see much change in the way things are.
I love her as much as ever and she often makes up for these mistakes, by being very sweet and caring. But something inside me tells me, that I could do better. That I should give her up and find someone who is more responsible (and with a little more sexdrive). It's just that, despite all her faults, I still very much love her and if I break up with her, I'll have no one to cuddle with, no one to direct all my love towards, noone to do a playthrough of Zelda: Ocarina of Time with and no one to hold hands and talk with...
2 Answers
- ?Lv 75 years ago
I think you clearly need to date someone your own age there are some things you like to do, with her, but you want more out of a relationship then what you have now, you really need to find someone who is around or at your age, so that you can enjoy being in a relationship with, not someone who is a teenager she has the rest of her life to live and her needs do not match up to yours, (only in games), and that is it.
You two need to find people your own age to have relationships with, you need to get out of this immature relationship and get into one that fits your lifestyles and needs.
It clearly sounds to me that it is what you want.
- ?Lv 75 years ago
You say "she doesn't want sex nearly as often as I do," and she if FIFTEEN years old. That statutory rape!