Really though, are some people just not liked by others?

Used to be really shy, got over myself and started talking to people.

Got plenty of ladies numbers, talked to em all and none of em lasted 1 month before stopping conversation with me, save for one which we talk maybe twice a month,

So, I tried just talking to guys and meeting new friends, which are guys.

Talked to 3 just this past month and I was gonna meet one just to talk, and he said he'd let me know the following week, been 2 weeks and I guess he forgot?

Another dude, met em at the gym, and I wanted to work in with him just to get a training partner and so I got his number recently, and I messaged him and no reply.

Are certain people just annoying, such as myself?