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girl code help?

so theres this girl i wanna ask out on date. i don't usually have a problem asking a girl out but this one is kinda tough she's super religious, quiet and shy. she's kinda awkward but not in a bad way. her and a friend of mine are bffs. so i kinda wanted to ask my friend for some tips on aproaching her but i fear the minute i mention anything to her about me liking her bff. girl instinct will kick in and she will tell her.

i dont want her finding out through someone else and then being awkward about it. so i guess my real question is .even thought your guy friends tells you not to say a word, does girl code over rule that?

Update:

i guess i should have mention that we see each other every other day we actually hang out now and then but my friend is always there she's like bridge between our friendship at the moment. its so hard to read into her because she's awkward like her conversations skills aren't really there. she's really an introvert if i had to describe her

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  • 5 years ago

    Take time is my number 1 advice

    Do this: whenever she mentions the girl you like/ try asking-well for example if this happens

    BFF-so then Mr.Brown gave her the homework to complete

    You-oh okay. Is she a math person? Because it seems like it.

    Try making small related questions about her whenever she brings her up. Then u can take note. If she's quiet then try approaching her. If she needs help in like school for example math try to offer her help after school-there you can make small convos about what you guys like. If you need help, try asking HER for help like let's say in a History study guide...

    don't rush things because if I were u as a guy (but I'm not because im a girl) go slow and take notes mentally because then you'll know what she likes and you'll be more informed. I hope this helps and it didn't sound confusing-sorry if it did😂😁but anyways-the girl sounds lovely-good luck!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    You mentioned she's a religious girl, I advise you to take extreme caution with this one. I don't care how young you are you need to think about how often you want to have sex in the relationship or if you want it before marriage. Not to say that religious girls are prudes but they usually take a vow to never have pre maritial sex. To some men it might be too much to handle so think about all of that before you ask her out.

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