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Was this a valid reason to break up with my girlfriend?

I've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. Today we attended a bluegrass music festival and had a great time! Some of our favorite bands were performing.

There was an event at the festival called "bluegrass scramble", where attendees volunteer to place their name in one of 7 containers (one for each instrument plus vocals), if they play that particular instrument (or sing). The MC draws one name each, and those people need to meet up and form an impromptu band and perform a few songs on stage.

My name was drawn for vocals, so I sang a couple of songs, and then the rest of my band members did an instrumental, so I didn't participate in that song (since I was only vocals). I played back a video of the performance, and I think I did terrible. Since I can't sing very well, and now my girlfriend knows this since she saw the performance, I'm thinking I would best break up with her. She deserves a much better person than me, and one who can sing well. And even better, one who can play a bluegrass instrument well.

FYI, she told me after the performance that I did a great job. I think she's just saying that to be kind.

Anyway, after I took her home, I told her that I don't think we should see each other anymore. She doesn't need an untalented, worthless loser like me.There were a lot of guys my age or younger (even girls) who were playing the instruments very well at the festival, too. I'm not even that attractive looking nor smart. She could do a lot better than me.

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  • 5 years ago

    Look maybe she was being nice but don't break up with her because of that . Embarrassing things happen but you can't let that ruin the relationship. So what if you can't sing . You have other talents so

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    5 years ago

    This was a waste of time for me to read. How stupid

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