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What are your views on staying friends after breaking up?

me and my boyfriend just broke up and as most breakups go, I've been heartbroken and hurt. Nonetheless, I'm maintaining a positive mindset and remaining to have hope for the future. But I ask this question because it seems as though society has made it seem like once 2 people have parted ways from being in a relationship, they must stop talking. I've just been a little confused bc my ex continues to message me and we just have casual conversations. It is a little odd to me, but I don't know how to feel about it.

Update:

and btw, it was a mutual breakup then I wanted to get back with him, then he decided it was best for him to be alone. I'm confused bc although he's decided it's best for him to be alone, he's continuing to message me.

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  • susan
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    You two can try to be friends, but I don't think it will work long term. It never works. But at first, it is understandable if one or both of you want to try to be friends, because you aren't used yet to not having that connection.

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