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How do I forgive a girl who not only rejected me but rejected me in public and embarrassed me?
At the university I went to, we had a yearly event called Fall Thing (it's like prom but costumed and themed). It used to be a Sadie Hawkins kind of thing but they decided to switch it around and have the guys ask the girls out. I asked a girl out in private (in the comfort of her own dorm, no less), and she not only said no, but said no in public.
Yes, I know she doesn't owe me a yes, but she didn't have to humiliate me publicly. Is it too much to ask for her to take me aside and tell me privately as opposed to, say, out in public, right dab smack in the middle of the cafeteria where dozens of other students heard and saw?
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- Special EPhexLv 75 years agoFavorite Answer
Yes it is too much too ask to reject you privately. Girls are heartless "you know whats" who only care about their own feelings, and have the nerve to make a big deal when someone actually treats them they way they treat others. Forgive her, because she is 'dumb' and doesn't know any better, and be thankful she didn't say yes. You don't want to be with a person who treats people like that. You seem like an honest respectable guy who a 'real' woman would appreciate. Hold out for something better and leave the dumb silly girls to the boys who are more suited to put up with their mess.
- ?Lv 75 years ago
Who says you have to forgive her?
Just move on. For whatever reason, she didn't want to go out with you and maybe she wanted to make a big deal about that. So she did.
You know where she stands. Don't pursue it.