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Sgtc
Lv 5
Sgtc asked in HealthWomen's Health · 5 years ago

Painful sex?!?

Okay so I am not a virgin. Been doing this three years now and with this partner for five months now. All of a sudden, it hurts really bad, not right when he puts it in, but when he is thrusting in to get the whole thing in there, deep inside. There's no blood, and we were both tested for stis recently and came up clean.We tried lube, we tried going slow, foreplay used to get me much wetter and i dont know what is going on. He feels rejected and I feel like my body is betraying me. I'm starting to fear trying. ADVICE?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    You said that foreplay USED TO get you more aroused.

    Perhaps you guys need to work on your warm up stuff some more. Your vagina won't be ready to stretch out to let him all the way in until you are properly aroused.

    Someone else mentioned vaginismus, which is a valid possibility.

    The other thing that occurs, to me, is that maybe he is ahem...well endowed... and is reaching your cervix with the end of his penis. Some women find cervical stimulation very pleasurable, others find it downright painful.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Look up 'Secondary Vaginismus' and have a chat with your doctor

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    G talk to you family doctor.

    It is against Y/A guidelines to discuss sexual activity on this website.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    have you tried different positions

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