Should I be concerned about GF & male friend messaging each other? I guess they made plans that fell through before I came along & he's mad?

Everyone is going to be all PC and say "She can do whatever she wants" or "guys and girls can be friends!".... or "You're jealousy is YOUR problem" and all that garbage.

The bottom line is this. If you are dating a girl and she is constantly messaging and making plans with and hanging out with other guys, than its only going to cause problems down the road. She isn;t mature enough for a serious relationship because any ADULT will tell you that male-female friendships are completely a teenage and young person thing and those friendships rarely, if ever last late into life.

Guys and girls have urges... in every male-female friendship, one of the 2 people likes the other one... and its usually the guy that likes the girl... and the girl that likes the attention that the guy gives.

stop treating your wife as a piece of wood

why are u not interested in her

why do u refuse to kiss her

why dont u know her birthday date?