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To send her flowers or not to send? Other suggestions? Help (seeking women for help mostly)?

Okay, so my girlfriend lives two hours away and we are very involved with each other. I have been contemplating on sending her some flowers just because I want to. The thing is, I haven't had the chance to give her flowers in person yet and am not sure if it would ruin the magic or spark (or whatever cheesy word you want to use) when I give her a rose for the first time. I will not send a rose - that's something I want to give in person for the first time.

So my question is I have not given her flowers yet - will sending her flowers to her house make it less of an experience for her when I do so in person for the first time? She has never gotten flowers, we are both adults but she is my first girlfriend so I have no prior experience with romance and really want my "firsts" to be really special - if that makes sense.

Is there anything else that will brighten her day up? I am probably thinking too much, I just woke up (at midnight) from a really sweet message from her and I want to do something special that she wouldn't expect.

Thanks

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  • WINGNUT
    Lv 7
    5 years ago
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    Have them delivered by FTD by surprise with a card, saying "thinking of you" and your first name or nickname. It might be old fashioned but works wonders. They call it the element of surprise which most often becomes an investment for future thanks. Subtle!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Don't get her flowers, visit her in person. Send her a text telling her that you happen to be in the area and see her. Don't come on so strongly on your first instance, or else she may compare it to other times. Nothing would look better than actually talking the time to travel the distance to see her in person, and it is the best thing that you could do.

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