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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 5 years ago

Should we spend our first Hanukkah as a couple, just the two of us?

I know I'm getting ahead of myself, but... If this thing with my female friend from high school becomes a real thing and we start dating as more than friends, and then eventually (hopefully) get married, should we celebrate our first Hanukkah together alone, or should we spend it with our family (her grandparents, parents, and brothers / / my parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and nieces and nephews)?

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  • 5 years ago
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    Is it possible to do both? Have your own private get together celebration , and then afterwards enjoy the Holidays with your family?

  • Steve
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    That is up to you and her.

    It's good you know you're getting ahead of yourself. Don't disregard that knowledge. Concentrate now on cultivating the friendship. Whether to celebrate together alone or with family will become clearer to you later on, if and when you do become a couple.

  • 4 years ago

    i think you should get married first and then figure it out

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