What to do for my petruding ears?

I feel so self conscious and ugly with these. I look back in pictures and just cringe. I don t even want to look at myself in the mirror with my hair tucked back. One day I bought I two month supply of ottostick cosmetic ear correcter. I ve been wearing it for two months and no results. I have long hair and always wear it down and everyone asks why I don t put it up. I fear of the names like dumbo and stuff. They stick out of my hair too which makes me mad. I quit ballet because I hated wearing a tight up bun with my ears. Even my ballet teacher who was a guy joked about them. Now that ottostick didn t work like they said it would idk what to do. They were about thirty dollars each and my parents didn t know I bought them. My family isn t very rich at all and I m scared as hell to ask about surgery because they ll just going to curse and lie that my ears are fine to save the money. They don t even know I m self Concious about them. I hate my school and don t want anybody to know about it if I do get the surgery. My sisters going to college soon and my mom won t pay for anything. Please tell me insurance covers it? How do I ask my parents? I m 14 btw