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I want a relationship, but I'm scared.?

I am a guy who's almost 17. My last gf was crazy and mentally abused me. She constantly made me talk with her on skype and we would for hours each day. Everytime I did something like go to the movies or even hang out with my family or friends, she would flip and say I was ignoring her (despite talking for over 4 hours every day). She also made me block female friends that I had known for a really long time and I didn't want to cast them out of my life just like that. She even threatened to kill herself, not to mention that she says I made her cut. I'm just scared of a relationship now, because she was my first and I never want to go through that much pain and stress ever again.

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Trust me, you just started with a bad relationship. Most people aren't like that. A friend of mine had a relationship with this girl and it was his first too. It was AWFUL and there was so much drama every single day. He was in so much stress and couldn't handle it at times.

    Now he's in an AMAZING relationship with an AMAZING girl. You should try going on dates and if you don't feel like you're ready then take a break. When you find someone you want to get to know, someone you are comfortable with try to take things further.

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